How to introduce Leather Accessories to your Partner.
Leather accessories are an erotic and sensuous accompaniment to leather lingerie and intimate apparel.
While many individuals who wear leather lingerie and those who appreciate the whole aura surrounding leather are comfortable with implementing leather accessories into their lifestyles, there may be some who find it very taboo or may not be as uninhibited about bondage and being handcuffed as we think they would be.
Starting off slowly is suggested to those meek hearted individuals who may shy away from the look and dominance that leather portrays. Implementing leather accessories into your sexual lifestyle with your ultra shy partner can be a challenge.
Starting off by introducing just a few items to your partner at time may be a safe bet to show them that you are into experimenting with leather bondage items.
Another subtle way to drop a hint could be by sharing erotic bondage pictures or even pornographic movies with your partner. Capture their reaction to see if this style may be a turn on to them.
Try taking the guesswork out of their interest in leather accessories by simply utilizing an off topic way to toss the idea out there and get an initial reaction.
If you suddenly bring home paddles, whips and hand cuffs and try to pin your partner down, you could cause a sense of fear and uneasiness in them that they were not expecting. This is not advised, especially if you are in a new relationship.
Another subtle way to drop a hint to your partner is by talking about this topic outside of the bedroom.
You could try bringing it up maybe even in a nonchalant way such as, “I heard at work today that Michelle and her partner are now into the whole bondage thing, she even went out and bought some leather restraints and a choker collar to bring home to wear, what a shocker! You know, maybe we should try it, maybe it would be fun?” Or you could implement something along the lines of; “I was flipping through the channels last night on the TV and came across this couple that were all into this whole bondage thing, she was all tied up and totally horny for her partner, she totally reminded me of you, maybe we could try something like that sometime?” These are just a couple of conversation ice breakers you could hint around to and then see if your partner opens up to the idea.
Starting off small and subtle is generally a good idea. Maybe you could start off by buying your partner a sexy piece of leather lingerie from your favorite online retailer. Leather and latex are the two most popular styles of bondage material.
The leather Babydoll style is a subtle yet sexy introduction piece to leather lingerie. The Babydoll comes in different variations such as a combination of leather with lace, fish net or even an open front style with a leather V- neck. You can even purchase a leather Babydoll with see through mesh and a matching leather thong. Even adding a pair of thigh high stockings can be subtle yet sexy. Try adding one subtle piece of bondage or accessory piece to this package such as a leather cat mask or even a leather choker. Pay close attention to how your partner reacts as you ask them to try on their new outfit. Don’t over do it, play nice the first time and gradually lead up to taking it a step further each time.
If your partner accepts experimenting with leather accessories and bondage, try taking it a step further. A Babydoll with leather and studs is a wise choice, subtle yet all the way sexy; this will look hot on your partner. A pair of leather leg guards which may have nail heads and buckles on the back are the perfect accessory for any lingerie piece. These can be worn with a Babydoll or simply with a leather thong and leather bra or bustier.
Leather spanking skirts and leather mini skirts are a sure fire outfit form to accompany any leather accessory. While the spanking skirt, with only a buckle enclosure is strictly for private dances or to be used behind closed doors. A popular leather mini skirt is a great fetish accessory to wear throughout the whole night. The mini is a safe bet if you are planning on Clubbing, or just simply going out for dinner with your partner.
Leather gloves are wonderful to utilize in the world of leather accessories. You can purchase then in a variety of lengths from short at the wrist to all the way above the elbow and every length in between.
Arm guards are a fun accessory that screams dominance and submission, adorned with leather and buckles; these can be used as a fashion statement or to signify in plain terms that you want your partner to tie you up.
Many leather gloves are adorned with buckles, nail heads, studs, spikes and eyeholes. By taking it a step further you can also purchase gloves with restraints on them so that the hands can be tied behind one’s back.
Leather designed hand and wrist cuffs are also available in styles that create the ultimate look in ankle restraints and ankle to wrist restraints. To be able to utilize and introduce these items in your lifestyle you will need a very open minded partner. This takes you and your partner to one of the highest levels of sexual exploration within bondage and the whole art of being tied up by your partner. A very long history of trust within oneself and the trust of your partner is the only way some may feel totally comfortable actually wearing and using these accessories.
When many think of bondage and submissive games they think of leather whips, paddles, chokers and blindfolds, while these are a staple in the bondage persona, through the years they have been intertwined with other accessories such as leashes, chains, fist cuffs and waist cinchers, to create an erotic feel while being pushed to the limits of submission.
While the true art of bondage is the ultimate sexual art form and not a pleasure to indulge in lightly, research and education is advised before jumping full force into the world of BDSM.
If hard core bondage isn’t for you and you just want to dabble into your leather and bondage fetishes, the excitement of a little good old fashioned restraint and submissiveness in the bedroom never hurt anyone. Keep reminding your partner it is all in good taste.
The key is to have fun with it by adding the alluring sensation of leather bound accessories as a welcoming compliment to your leather ensembles.